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Toxic Friendships

A Toxic friendship is a relationship that consistently drains you emotionally, undermines your well being, or makes you feel worse about yourself rather than supported.  Unlike normal conflict, the harm is ongoing and patterned, not occasional. What makes a Friendship ‘Toxic’? In Psychology, a healthy relationship is based on mutual respect, trust, and emotional safety. …

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Emotions as Waves- The SURF Framework

Emotions as waves Emotions are temporary experiences that, like ocean waves, rise in intensity, reach peak and naturally subside. Instead of fighting or suppressing distressing feelings-which often makes them last longer- ‘riding the wave’ is a mindfulness-based technique that involves observing emotions without judgment until they pass, usually within a few minutes. Thinking of emotions…

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